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Dec 9, 20202 min read
Avoidant Attachment in the Relationship
An intimate relationship potentially offers the basis for safety and containment for both partners, but when evokes feelings too powerful...
Oct 4, 20202 min read
My Therapist Won't Tell Me What To Do!
Since I became a therapist, I have had clients expected me to tell them "What to do", "what to think" if I had the "right answer". As a...
Sep 5, 20202 min read
The 5 Responses to Trauma
We respond to threat in a instinctive manner from a very primitive parts of our brain, studies have analysed and identified five...
Sep 5, 20202 min read
Somatisation and How It Shows on The Body
Somatisation is an Ego defence - unconscious channelling of pain into the body - it is a tendency to experience and communicate distress...
Aug 29, 20201 min read
The two C's: Compassionate Communication
We often make it difficult for our partners to know what we are looking for from them, to get our desires or requests met often we do not...
Aug 7, 20202 min read
When Anxiety Is Taking The Toll
Those clients who experience anxiety hold a sensitive perception to awareness of their environment and other people, they also exposed to...
Aug 7, 20201 min read
That Feeling Called ANGER
What to do with repressed anger or rage? If you felt too controlled or were shamed, emotionally or mentally manipulated, shut down,...
Jul 8, 20201 min read
Remote Counselling
What do some clients choose to see a counsellor on video calling? What are the reasons why working online might be more attractive to some p
Jul 1, 20202 min read
The Highs and Lows of a Narcissist
Let me begin with a small description of healthy and not healthy Narcissistic behaviour. The Healthy one is denominated by confidence,...
Jun 14, 20203 min read
Adult Children of Narcissist Parent(s)
As children we need to feel loved and protected by our parents, our self esteem and wellbeing depends entirely on their skills as our...
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